ONE YEAR LATER DAMIEN Clara has been busy preparing baby Tristan for the morning. It is a cold day outside and she has dressed him in the warmest baby clothes in his closet. I haven't said anything about them being too hot for him, but what can I say? She is the mother so she knows what is best for Tristan. After dressing him up, she carries him to me and places him in my arms. Tristan has his moments. Sometimes he is very excited to play with daddy, and sometimes he is very furious to see me and he won't let me carry him. I guess today is my lucky day! Tristan gives me a cute big smile when I hold him in my arms. I can't help the grin that reflects on my face when I realize that I have timed one of his good moods.  Mommy looks so tired. Tristan has been up half of the night giving her a hard time. I was awake all night and so was everyone else in the house but he didn't want anyone to get his fingers on him except his mommy. Now he wants